Mar 5, 2026 - The tendency to nurture others can be a liability for you. Unless you are a paid professional during office hours, taking care of yourself first is your foremost responsibility. Even parents need to focus on themselves if they are going to be proper role models for their children. If you need someone to nurture, look in the mirror! You are a wonderful listener: ask your reflection what it needs and hop to it! It may take a little practice, but you can do it.
Mar 6, 2026 - Remember the stuff about looking in the mirror and asking your reflection what you need? This is not something you can put off for the future (when you're not in this relationship, when your kids are grown, when your job is not so demanding). It's the #1 priority now. A good test is to notice how much water you drink in a day. If you can safely say that you drink over ten glasses of water a day, I'm off your case!